Wednesday, December 27, 2006

The Window to your Soul


The most vulnerable part of your body are your eyes. Your eyes are the window to your soul. Letting someone look into your eyes is like allowing that person to know all your deepest and darkest secrets. Your eyes can be your worst enemy because they give you away. Your mouth might be saying something but your eyes are telling a different story. Your eyes never lie.
There is alot of emotion in your eyes. You can tell how a person is feeling through their eyes without looking at the rest of their face. You can see pain, anger, and hurt. You can see sympathy, happiness, playfulness. You can even see someone asking for help through their eyes. Your eyes show exactly how you are feeling at exactly that moment.
Eyes make a person who they are. Eyes can be inviting. Eyes make a person mysterious and interesting. Your eyes are the most intriguing part of you. Take care of them well. And be careful who you share them with.

Tuesday, December 26, 2006

Taking For Granted

When you have been with a person for a while you start taking them for granted. It doesn't have to be a year or even 6 months, it can be less than that when you begin to take someone for granted. In my last serious relationship, I...well...we began taking each other for granted a few months after we began dating.
It seems that when you take someone for granted you began to lose appreciation for that person and the things that they do for you then things begin to go sour and downhill. You stop doing those special little things that you used to do in the beginning. You begin to get a bit unhappy and the fights begin. "Why can't you do something special for once?" or "You never do anything for me anymore."
This is why it is important to never ever take anything or anyone for granted. Always remind youself how special that person is to you and how lucky you both are to be in each other's life. And notice the little things they do to show how much they care about you. This is not just a one-sided thing. Both people involved in the relationship must do this.
I refuse to take that special person in my life right now for granted. I have learned through trial and error to appreciate things more.

Thursday, December 14, 2006

Taking Time

When you see a person everyday, you get used to seeing them everyday. So when you don't see that person for a day or two, its not a very good feeling. You might question why they don't want to see you. You might get hurt, or feel a little offended. But what you have to remember is that everyone needs a little time to themselves. Plus its very crucial in a relationship to spend some time apart. Of course it's going to bother you. You feel rejected by the person that you most care about, but try to keep an open mind. You want your significant other to be able to spend a night out with his/her friends, without him feeling bad. How would you feel if you were in the same situation? Just remember that just because he/she needs a night to himself/herself doesn't mean he/she doesn't care about or love you anymore.